..That gets my motor running...

Honor · Post by **Honor** » Wed Dec 20, 2006 8:15 pm

well said...

Honor · Post by **Honor** » Wed Dec 20, 2006 8:16 pm

...double posts turn me on.

Swordsman3003 · Post by **Swordsman3003** » Wed Dec 20, 2006 10:44 pm

me too.

JohnnyTwoEyes · Post by **JohnnyTwoEyes** » Wed Dec 20, 2006 11:28 pm

I'm not turned on really by big breasts and a nice ass or a flat, muscular chest and a six pack, I see them as attractive but it doesn't turn the engine over.

The things that DO are the actual experiences. If I can see something (like, say, anal penetration) I can focus on it and I can feel it myself in a small sense. Something like a deep, passionate kiss or a loving look between two people is infinitely more sexy than a nice perfect pair of breasts bouncing right in front of me.

I suppose that has been the driving factor of my ambisexuality. I don't feel gender is an issue because i'm attracted to the passion and the emotion and the feeling, not whether you have dangly bits or your own built in coin purse.

That's also why I tend to read pornography instead of watch it.

Fnyunj · Post by **Fnyunj** » Thu Dec 21, 2006 8:39 am

Honor wrote:And yes... Funny is important. An odd thing I noticed once... Read a lot of personal ads wherein the person states what qualities they are looking for in a mate. When I looked, as an experiment, I found women very, very, very often saying a sense of humor was important to them in a potential mate... In reading just as many (actually more) male ads, I found very, very few males mention it at all.

Interesting. This is the main trait that all of my girlfriends have said they found attractive in me.

I've always thought of the ability to make a person laugh as a personality trait of a socially "dominant" type. You know - the class clown, who GETS attention, who may not be physically intimidating by build or social status, who often attracts the ire of the physically dominating type because of the attention he gets. It's sort of a public flexing of mental muscles. A funny person MAKES other people laugh. And a funny person accomplishes it through feats of skill, and it's a multifaceted skillset; oration, (delivery), as well as being able to discern funnyness in a situation, or in a grammatical scenario (for puns). A funny person gets to show that off, and it's socially acceptable in a lot of cases, where a physical person often has to expose his or her body, or perform an athletic feat to accomplish the same thing (getting attention).

A funny person also usually projects a positive and engaged personality. Being smart, but depressing, isn't sexy. When I get into bad moods, and I'm talking about the kind that last 6 months or more, (I wouldn't say it's clinical depression) - I tend to lose my ability to make people laugh, I stop making jokes, and I end up in these long sexual dry-spells.

Oh well, enough of Armchair Psychology 101.

Awkwardschoolgirl · Post by **Awkwardschoolgirl** » Thu Dec 21, 2006 11:31 am

Chthulhu wrote:
Some scents as well, with clean, aroused woman way out in front. I used to have a thing about Opium (perfume and/or cologne); if I caught a whiff *anywhere* I had to track it down before I could resume whatever it was I had been doing. <Grin>

Smells always stick out to me too. I have a very very very smell related memory. For example Squiddy wears this really yummy smelling cologne spray thingy, one of the Axe line I think, when he visits me and I smell it every so often on the subway or on the guy who sits in front of me in my math class and I go into la-la land. *sigh* Also, the smell of certain peoples' laundry gets me going. Or shampoo...

Aeridus · Post by **Aeridus** » Thu Dec 21, 2006 12:56 pm

I wear Axe deoderant now... and I use honey-based shampoo too.

Awkwardschoolgirl · Post by **Awkwardschoolgirl** » Thu Dec 21, 2006 1:49 pm

Can... you come to Canada so I can smell you for hours on end? Please?

Aeridus · Post by **Aeridus** » Thu Dec 21, 2006 4:58 pm

Of course!

The Cheshire Dragon · Post by **The Cheshire Dragon** » Thu Dec 21, 2006 5:13 pm

Touch, more specifically pain. I've been finding out that I am a huge painslut. I don't think I've ever gotten so wet as when I was alternately flogged, poked, and generally beaten at a play party a few months back. Touch in general too is nice. I love snuggles and kisses 'n such.

A dominant, but caring personality, especially when it's focused on me. Hell, attention given to me in general. I'm an attention whore in a bad way, but it makes me feel oh-so wonderful.

If you want physical stuff? I have a thing with visible hipboness and long hair. If both are included, I've got masturbation material for weeks. (I know guys like this and if they weren't taken I'd have jumped them when I first met them.)

Jackalope · Post by **Jackalope** » Fri Dec 22, 2006 5:15 am

Intelligence, but being smart is not enough. Being clever is much better. A clever person puts their intelligence to use. That quickness of mind and a sense of humor gets me every time. I also seem to be attracted primarily to ones who have some sort of creative talent, whether it's music, dance, drama, or the ability to design and build things from scratch. George and I get along best when we're building something together (and yes, we both have a powertool fetish).

Big, soulful eyes, long hair, and strong hands will also get me. Which is why I realized a while ago that while I appreciate Johnny Depp pretty much no matter how they dress him, Jack Sparrow is the character he plays that could have me sit up and beg. Partially because even Depp considers Jack to be a seperate part of his personality.

I've known a few real-life Jack Sparrows and they're a lot of trouble. Don't ever lend them money, or your car (or bike) or anything expensive and expect to see it again. But ghods, they're hot, which is why I keep getting burned by bad boys like Wicked Jack...if you can keep one as a fucktoy, it's much safer. They often weasel their way into your feelings, though. And like Jack, the ones I pick are never bad all the way through, which is part of the fascination.

Though I'm older, obese and crippled, I still seem to be able to draw at least some people in by sheer force of personality. Some of the ones I've collected lately have even been sane, which is a nice change...yup, some days it's good to be the musician.

I'm feverish and rambling...

Aeridus · Post by **Aeridus** » Fri Dec 22, 2006 9:36 pm

I get a hard-on whenever I eat raw blueberry muffin batter for some reason...

Jackalope · Post by **Jackalope** » Fri Dec 22, 2006 9:40 pm

Now that could lead to some interesting fetishes...

Aeridus · Post by **Aeridus** » Fri Dec 22, 2006 10:09 pm

jackalope wrote:Now that could lead to some interesting fetishes...

Indeed it could... *writes down in fetish book: "Make blueberry muffins while getting a blowjob."*

Kittyboymuffin · Post by **Kittyboymuffin** » Sat Dec 23, 2006 9:52 am

Muffins? :3

WangyJohn · Post by **WangyJohn** » Sat Dec 23, 2006 12:04 pm

Kittyboymuffin wrote:Muffins? :3

I just imagined you popping up from behind anything anytime someone says "muffins"

Kittyboymuffin · Post by **Kittyboymuffin** » Sun Dec 24, 2006 9:34 am

*beams. This involves purring.*

Honor · Post by **Honor** » Sun Dec 24, 2006 9:16 pm

WangyJohn wrote:
Kittyboymuffin wrote:Muffins? :3
I just imagined you popping up from behind anything anytime someone says "muffins"

Kittyboymuffin wrote:*beams. This involves purring.*

Wow... Huge cute readings in the mental image monitor, Captain...

awkward & aeridus: I had a girlfriend who wore Axe... Holy effing shit, man... *fans herself* I -still- have one of her tee-shirts I keep rolled up, and - what? almost two years later, I still smell it and purr.

jackalope wrote: I've known a few real-life Jack Sparrows and they're a lot of trouble. Don't ever lend them money, or your car (or bike) or anything expensive and expect to see it again. But ghods, they're hot, which is why I keep getting burned by bad boys like Wicked Jack...if you can keep one as a fucktoy, it's much safer. They often weasel their way into your feelings, though. And like Jack, the ones I pick are never bad all the way through, which is part of the fascination.

Works for butch baby dykes, too... I know this, in part, at least, because this sort of descriptive reminds me a lot of the ways I was described when I was younger. I was quite the archetypical scoundrel with the heart of gold for quite some time.

Xnapalmxmorningx · Post by **Xnapalmxmorningx** » Sun Dec 24, 2006 10:14 pm

scrawny nerds....*drool*
I don't know what it is but....damn

Kittyboymuffin · Post by **Kittyboymuffin** » Mon Dec 25, 2006 9:35 am

Yeah, did I already mention nerd girls? n.n