Aris Katsaris wrote:
On 2002-04-19 23:44, Shatteredtower wrote:
Couldn't resist, could you?

But the answer to your question is my standard for judging people is how they relate to
all people - the ones they loathe as well as the ones they like.
Then I'd say that this standard is incomplete - because it must also take into account how often somebody likes and how often somebody hates, and for what reasons. If somebody hates only one person and treats him badly, that's different than somebody who hates the entire world and
treats them badly.
Of course, it's incomplete, Mr. Katsaris. We could be here until the sun died, narrowing specifics down, and it's likely that it would remain incomplete. I'm not sure why you're quibbling about this, though.
If I see you treating another person like scum, I will try to determine the cause for that. (I may not do it immediately, but that does not absolve me of responsibility for neglect or rash actions.) But even if I do respect your reasons for it, I'm going to remember that conduct, and it is going to flavour my judgment of you.
Rikk has only felt that hate once, from what we know.
It's a good disclaimer: "from what we know." I don't think it's worth much, though. "He only tried to strike a man in the back of the head once, from what we know." "He's only gotten off on his power once, from what we know."
Rikk's never tried to commit murder (from what we know, of course

), but that doesn't justify his behaviour here either.
And he still had the restraint (though with help from Will) not to strike.
So someone intervened to prevent Rikk from doing something stupid to do something else shameless - and you credit Rikk. You're showing quite a bit of bias in your presentation of events here, sir.
[qb] And you condemn him for not being an absolute saint who'd go out of his way to reform the person he's hated?[/qb]
Condemn him? I believe you exaggerate the point. He's in authority - and he's misused it. He did not show restraint - it was placed upon him. He should know better than this.
Sure, I can forgive him - I understand his reasons, after all. But I would take him to task for it.
I don't feel I can take Harry to task for what I've seen of his own conduct towards Stu. Stu knows what he's being called on here, because Harry made it clear to Stu. What Rikk made clear to Stu was that Rikk had power and was eager to use it against him.
(I do see Rikk's point of view and his reasons. I can respect the reasons for his anger, but I do not respect either of the means by which he expressed it.)
*snort* You call it the moral high ground, if you want - to me, it's nothing but a moral high horse.
If you think that murdering Stu would be a better choice for Rikk to take, fine, go on thinking it.
And I thought I was prone to overstatement.

I'm going to assume that you didn't mean to be dishonest in misrepresenting my position this badly, Mr. Katsaris.
Rikk was obviously getting a thrill out of being able to crush a man. I don't care
how you go about it, that is
low behaviour. I don't care that Stu should be able to shrug it off, either - he could just as easily have shrugged off a blow to the back of the head. That wouldn't have made the punch right, of course.
This was not about the good of the club for Rikk (whether such is the case for others is a different discussion). It was about throwing his weight around. Maybe dismissing Stu could have served the good of the club, but not in the fashion it was performed.
If you think in that moment he could reasonably explain in peace the reason that Stu's statements were a bit below human society's standards of due compassion, then you have a much higher opinion of Rikk than I do, funny though that sounds.
I'm not sure he could have. I do know that he should have - or he should have chosen another moment. I also know that he didn't. Notice that in spite of this, I haven't declared that he is unfit to lead and that he should step down.
(When would there have been a good moment? After everyone's slept on it. The spur-of-the-moment decision is the act of a mob, not of civilization.)
He chose not to physically injure.
After he was disuaded from that choice. Are you intentionally
downplaying the significance of Will's intervention to suit your own purposes?
That's all we could possibly demand from Rikk in that moment.
There must always be accountability, especially of authority. Rikk, like Guth, has tried to make sure that the rules favour
his kind of power in the scenes we've seen with Stu. I don't condone that any more than I condone kicking people in the head for offending me.
It really almost feels as if you are treating Stu as the only real person there, and all the others as simple
personifications.
That's funny, because to me, the situation is that you are treating Stu as the only non-person there. That is the convenient illusion upon which so much "civilized" behaviour has rested, after all.
And that is the problem of the listener, not the speaker.
No, it's not. Words are meant to communicate.[/quote]
Or to mislead.
Calling it "The War of Northern Agression" communicates meaning about who you believe to have been right and who you believe to have been wrong.
But it doesn't communicate the why of the matter - nor does it communicate intent. It is too simple a statement to hang the conclusions you have hung upon it.
"The American Civil War" is neutral in meaning and most people (including me) prefer it since it lacks moral connotations which usually up distorting communication. Otherwise I might prefer calling it "The War of Southern Hypocricy", which after all I also believe it to be.
That's fine for you, I'm sure. But what you call neutral some would call "politically correct," in the proper sense of the term. After all, in Quebec, some refer to The Battle of the Plains of Abraham - a "neutral" term, as you call it - as "the Conquest."
And you know something? They're right. I don't think it does them any good to be right, and I don't think they'd have been any better off if the battle had gone the other way - but the adoption of "neutral" terms are usually dictated by the victor.
Had the British quashed the American Revolution, the neutral term might have been "The American Rebellion" - a no less accurate summation of what happened, but one with a very different spin.
The term "The War of Northern Agression" is more misleading, but it is a valid opinion - a starting point - no matter how shaky. But since a Civil War is a war between two sides in the same country, I'd call that a pretty slanted view from a Confederate standpoint.
(And considering what was done with Loyalist families and properties at the end of the American Revolution, as well as the fact that much of the early discontent with the British Empire in the Colonies was about the recognition of French language and Catholic religion in territory acquired from France, I find myself reluctant to whole-heartedly condemn
the secessionist point of view, no matter how opportunistic, to put it mildly, it was.)
Sure, the Confederacy is dead now - does that mean people should forget who killed it? It certainly doesn't mean people get to forget
why they killed it, now does it?
Besides, why would anyone else on the planet feel the need for another term for it?
Hello? Internet? People from everywhere on the planet occasionally having to listen to Southern folk also? I never said that they'd *use* the term.
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You didn't answer the question, Mr. Katsaris. You said where they may have heard it - you did not say why they'd need the term themselves.
I'm going to have to abandon this discussion - it's taken me two days (and a lot of edits) to send this. I think I've said all I need to say anyway.